I want too Hear.
Yep, men and women are so programmed and so familiarly adapted to saying what they think I want too hear.
Myself, I am more or the less a bold type. I usually don’t think before speaking; although I am improving on that and trying too put myself in the other’s shoes more often.
I am blunt and too the point and I have hurt many feelings.
Which also makes me think about men in relationships. They truly are in a cave most days and usually come out for food or sex. I have had several long term relationships. They got past the first few try-outs and ended up fairly long term in my eyes anyways.
When I hear of persons that have been together for over 20 years and beyond it truly baffles my mind.
Good for them.
The things a woman wants and needs are so different from a man’s needs.
Most women want a man who is first and foremost honest. If they are not it brings the dishonesty out in me and the games begin.
They want compassion. Someone who listens, really listens and can honestly have input and understand your feelings and why you are ranting about it too start with.
They want a great physical connection. Hold my head in your hands when you kiss me and brush my hair often.
Investigate my entire body not just the parts that work for you.
Knows what a kitchen is for and uses it. Can make steak out of hamburger so too speak.
Knows the toilet seat goes down and is not afraid of the toilet brush.
Knows soiled clothes go in the laundry basket not the floor for the cat too pee on.
Doesn’t track dirt in after you have just scrubbed the floor with Mister Clean. Take the shoes off.
This Castle is a ZEN space.
Love and protect all my animals
Many may say Finance and Fortitude should be on this list but truly that is among the givens. Most of my life I have depended on few persons. They promise too do something and eventually it might be done.
Not too say it might be years later.
Please don’t say you’re going too do something on a specific day and then renign on that agreement.
I don’t do that and I expect the same.
(Emergencies Not Included)
I used too want three things in a man. As I have entered my Other Mode I still have the three listed above but with a different perspective.
a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something; a point of view.
When you think about it they are actually and should be “Givens”
Listed here were my wants in a man earlier in my days
A man that would love and cherish only me. Adventurous in and out of bed. Doing things spur of the moment. Verbally and physically complimentary. Tell me I look fantastic when I feel like crap. I may believe it. If I loved you I did what ever I could for you
Too share our abundance in a equalized way if possible. Holidays, vacations, clothes, I wanted it all
They were well taken care of .
I was and still am a Goddess
Able to discuss anything, not just sports, Oh no not Sports. I can honestly say all my men showed no interest in Sports on TV. They may have played outdoors but that was it.
No Football widow here now or ever.
Believe me they were “REAL MEN”
Everything Changes especially in regards to our perceptions.
Insight, intuition, or knowledge gained by perceiving.